Why 'Toughing It Out' During Menopause is Bad Advice
We are often taught to keep our struggles to ourselves, to suffer in silence, and to grin and bear it. The prevailing narrative around aging, particularly for women, is that it is tough and that discomfort is an inevitable part of getting older. But let’s take a hard look at this perspective and turn the tables on it. Now is the time and place to change the way we approach aging, especially the end of our menstrual cycles. This transition isn't far off from puberty; I call it the second puberty of life.
The Fallacy of 'Toughing It Out'
The idea that we should simply endure the symptoms of menopause without seeking relief or support is not only outdated but harmful. Menopause is a significant life transition that can impact physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Symptoms like hot flashes, night sweats, mood swings, and cognitive changes can be debilitating, affecting every aspect of a woman's life. The notion of 'toughing it out' ignores the available resources and strategies that can alleviate these symptoms and improve quality of life.
Embracing a New Beginning
Menopause should be viewed not as an end but as a new beginning. Much like puberty, it is a phase of significant change that can lead to a renewed sense of self and vitality. This period offers an opportunity to reassess health habits and implement foundational plans that promote well-being.
Key Strategies for Thriving During Menopause
Prioritize Protein: Consuming adequate amounts of clean protein is crucial during menopause. Protein supports muscle mass, bone health, and overall energy levels. Incorporating high-quality protein sources into your diet can make a significant difference in how you feel.
Eliminate Added Sugars: Reducing or eliminating added sugars from your diet can help manage weight, stabilize mood, and reduce the risk of chronic diseases. Sugar spikes can lead to energy crashes and exacerbate symptoms like hot flashes and night sweats.
Stay Active: Regular physical activity can help manage menopause symptoms, improve mood, and maintain muscle and bone health. Aim for a mix of aerobic exercises, strength training, and flexibility exercises.
Hydrate and Nourish: Staying well-hydrated and eating a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and healthy fats can support overall health and well-being.
Seek Support: Don’t hesitate to seek support from healthcare providers, support groups, and wellness resources. Sharing experiences and advice with others going through similar transitions can be incredibly beneficial.
The Rally Cry
I keep saying it, and I won't stop until every woman knows: You can eat protein, drop sugar, and thrive through menopause. This is not the time to suffer in silence. Embrace this phase with a proactive approach to health and well-being. By making simple, foundational changes, you can age with grace, vitality, and a renewed sense of self. Let’s shift the narrative from 'toughing it out' to thriving through it.
Menopause is not just an end—it's the beginning of a vibrant new chapter in life. Let’s embrace it together.
